Women used to show some difference in their approach to a guy when she treats him as a friend and as a dater or lover. She is in perfect sync with the guy as a friend laughing at each others jokes and considerate of each other's feelings. She treats the guy right giving him the support and helping him by understanding the needs wherever possible. To get the same benefits in your love life, follow the tips that will definitely bring in a difference.

Share the activities like with a girl friend

For girls it is natural to take along their girl friends when they go for a outing. Activity based bonding should not be relegated to females only. There are plenty of option to share your activities with your love guy. Figure out common interests or goals and go for it together. This will increase the team spirit. If deep understanding is developed you both will be in a position to share the interests of each other and not just the common interests.

Appreciate him as you do your girlfriends

Your guy, just like your girl friends welcome appreciation. Women take great pains to make their girlfriends feel great about themselves. When coming to a guy they think it is unnecessary or that the guy don't expect it. This attitude is showing even when bragging about them to their friends and family members. It is because the girls assume that the guys are egoistic and their ego is impenetrable. But the truth is they are just as insecure as your girlfriends and will appreciate a compliment every now and then. You can say the same things, as you would expect from your guy. Statements like 'you look so good in that shirt' and 'your talent deserved it' when he got a promotion will go a long way in binding the relationship. Don't be surprised if he suddenly seems to be around you a whole lot more.

Accept him as he is

Most women find it difficult to love the guys the way they are. It is common among women to accept their girlfriends as they are and even proud of having friends with different interests. But they refuse to use the same yardstick to their guys. They expect the guy to change everything from his hair, clothes and job to friends. Keep in mind that your guy would also harbor the same expectations. Accept him as he is. It is not wrong in expecting your lover to change something if it is possible. But forcing is not the right way. Accept him with some qualities as he accepts you with some qualities. Learn to relax and appreciate distinctly male behaviors in your relationship. Sure, most guys do some things that annoy you, but that is the way they are. Rather than getting annoyed with the lack of qualities you expect of him, get on with it and have more fun for a smooth relationship.

Tell frankly about your thoughts

In a friendship women won't expect their best friends to always know what they are thinking about; but in dating relationship they expect their guys to mind read their thoughts. They get disappointed when their boyfriends don't show the mind reading tendencies. Women always used to harbor the romantic notions like, 'if only he knows where to take me for a dinner', or if only he asked me about the trouble I am having with my virus infected computer', or 'won't he ask me which kind of movies I like'. Why this unnecessary approach and expectation when it comes to dating relationship. But the truth is you can avoid all these disappointing situations by openly telling him where you want to dine, or asking his help to get the virus out of your computer, or the kind of movies you like. Don't expect your guy to always play the guess work to read your mind to know your likes and dislikes.

Understand he will also be busy and allow him his space

It is natural that some of your girlfriends go busy for a while. They are so busy that they won't return your emails. Do you curse them for not being prompt while they are busy? You won't take it seriously. But when comes to your guy you are changing the rules. Finding fault with him will affect the relationship. Understand that he too will be busy and he has some work or responsibilities to perform and it's quite natural that he won't be

in a position to promptly return your phone calls or emails. You can understand this if your own space gets affected and your guy unnecessarily find fault with you for not responding promptly.

Managing your time and his time without too much interference will make the time you do spend together a fun filled one. Stop watching his every movement and don't ask for his whereabouts every one hour. Allow him to have his own time. Accept the reality that he has also other friends and relationship to honor and commit some time. Normally you won't bother when your girlfriends do something with their own friends. Why don't you show the same tolerance towards your guy when he happens to be with his friends. If you want to do something girl stuff you have to be with your girl friends. similarly if your guy wants to have some boy stuff he has to spend his time with his boyfriends. Really this will give you both some deviation from routine and refresh you both. You both will feel refreshed and fulfilled by having your own time apart. This will make the time you both together even happier one.

Showing excessive possessiveness will damage the relationship. Approach your love relationship from practical angles. You enjoy your own space and allow him to enjoy his space. This will strengthen your bond and your love relationship will be fresher for ever.